touch Yourself: The Ultimate Guide to Self-Love During Masturbation Month

touch Yourself: The Ultimate Guide to Self-Love During Masturbation Month


May is National Masturbation Month — and if that makes you blush a little, good. Because it means we’re finally talking about it. Self-pleasure is more than just a good time (although, yes please). It's a celebration of your body, your confidence, and your right to feel amazing without shame. This month, we’re going all in on normalizing solo play, embracing body autonomy, and giving you everything you need to turn up the heat.

Why Masturbation Matters
Masturbation isn’t taboo — it’s a totally natural, healthy part of life. It helps you:

  • Reduce stress and anxiety
  • Sleep better
  • Improve sexual function and desire
  • Learn what turns you on
  • Increase confidence in and out of the bedroom

And it doesn’t matter if you’re single, partnered, or somewhere in between

Solo Play, Your Way
There is no "right" way to masturbate. Your body is uniquely yours, so your pleasure should be too. Explore what feels good with these ideas:

  • Start with the senses: Set the mood with candles, massage oils, or even your favorite playlist.
  • Use your imagination: Fantasies, erotic audio, or spicy reading can awaken your mind before you touch a thing.
  • Add a toy (or three): Vibrators, massagers, or soft silicone sleeves can take solo time from meh to mind-blowing.

🛍️Shop the Solo Vibes Collection🛍️
Ready to explore? Check out our handpicked collection for Masturbation Month. Every item is body-safe, beginner-friendly, and oh-so satisfying. Whether you’re looking for something discreet, powerful, or totally indulgent, we’ve got you covered.

👉 Solo Vibes Collection

You will find products like Seductive Bloom 

 Bold. Customizable. Unapologetically powerful.

Seductive Bloom is the vibe for babes who want options. With app control, sound-activated vibrations, and dual stimulation, this toy is all about letting you create your own rhythm — whether you're in the mood for a slow tease or a full-on floral firework show. Pair it with confidence and a “don’t text me, I’m busy” playlist.

   👉 Shop Velvet Wand →              

👉 Shop Seductive Bloom →

and Velvet Wand

Soft. Comforting. Seriously satisfying.

Velvet Wand is your go-to for gentle power and full-body chill. With a low, rumbly motor and plush silicone finish, this mini wand melts stress and tension wherever you need it — no complicated settings, no pressure to perform. Just plug in your favorite playlist, light a candle, and let it work its magic.

👉 Shop Velvet Wand →

 

💖Discover your pleasure style💖
Take our fun and cheeky quiz to discover what type of self-love suits you best. Are you a Sensual Explorer? A Bold Babe? Or a Chill Vibes Queen?

Take quiz 👉 here

 

 

 

🎁 Your Free Self-Love Gift🎁
Download your 5-Day Self-Love Challenge to reconnect with your body and boost your confidence with simple daily prompts. Great for journaling, reflection, or just spicing things up.

Freebie download 👉here

 

 

Are you A Bold Babe or maybe a Chill Vibes Queen

Final Thought
This May, we’re saying goodbye to shame and hello to pleasure. Celebrate Masturbation Month with curiosity, courage, and a whole lot of love — for yourself.

You deserve it. Every. Damn. Time.

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